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Some people in life seem to have incredible charisma. These people are confident, charming, witty and amazingly popular with almost everyone they meet. But charisma isn’t something that some individuals are born with and others aren’t. It is simply the ability to charge the aura of etheric matter that we all have with intensely positive energy. Anyone can learn to do this deliberately. Indeed, people have done so for centuries.
The technique for developing incredible charisma is easy to learn, but extremely powerful. It involves getting yourself into what is known as a ‘peak state’ of emotional and physical intensity. Once established, the positive energy created by this peak state will charge your aura and automatically make you more charismatic for the rest of the day.
To get the most out of this technique (which is, by the way, based on the profound knowledge of the shamans) you should practice it every day without fail. By doing this, your aura will maintain a strong charge of positive energy which radiates charisma day after day.
The very first time you use this technique, you may feel a little self-conscious. This is normal. Within a few days you will notice people responding to you differently, more positively, and this in itself will naturally make you want to use the technique again and again. Before long you will be an awesomely charismatic individual and enjoy immense popularity. At this stage all feelings of self-consciousness will have vanished automatically. The technique for developing incredible charisma is as follows:
Each morning, go to a place where you can enjoy total privacy. Now imagine hearing a regular drumbeat which has a moderate pace. As you listen to this drumbeat in your imagination, begin to dance along to it. Do not worry about how you might look – no-one can see you. Just focus on dancing to the rhythm of the drumbeat within.
Now gradually increase the tempo of the drumbeat you hear, and as you do so, ensure that your dancing pace also increases accordingly. Allow the drumbeat to grow faster and faster, until you begin to feel a noticeable increase in your physical energy.
If you do this correctly, you will notice that your heart rate speeds up and your breathing becomes more intense. At this stage, whilst still dancing, use your creative visualization skills to imagine going through your day as an incredibly charismatic individual. In your mind, see people smiling at you, wanting to be around you – maybe even flirting with you if that is what you want. As you do this, hear the drumbeat grow louder and louder. Right now you should feel the energy coursing through your head and through the rest of your body even more intensely. Enjoy this feeling of energy and vitality. This is the real you. The charismatic you.
When your energy level has increased as much as you think it can, stop the internal drumbeat and stand still for a few seconds. Take a few deep breaths and then continue with the rest of your day. You will now radiate charisma automatically throughout the day, and if you ever feel your charisma weakening, simply hear the drumbeats in your mind to recharge your aura.
A positive attitude is essential if you want to create good things in your life with the law of attraction and the power of creative thought. This key fact has been taught for thousands of years, and you would find it difficult to identify anyone who has been able to achieve a life of success, abundance, vitality and happiness without having a positive attitude. Fortunately, if you want to develop a positive attitude then you can do so. All you have to do is develop ‘the positive attitude habit’.
The positive attitude habit is the habit of deliberately checking your attitude at specific points in the day and then consciously choosing to be positive if you find yourself thinking otherwise. This takes a little effort in the beginning because most people aren’t used to taking conscious control over their emotions and attitudes, but if you can discipline yourself for a few weeks you can expect a positive attitude to become second nature. Here’s how to do that:
First, establish a reminder system which will remind you to check your attitude several times each day. If you have a clock with a chime then you could check your attitude whenever the clock chimes the hour. Or you could decide to check your attitude whenever you visit the bathroom. As long as you are able to check your attitude at least once in the morning, once in the afternoon and once in the evening, your reminder system should work fine.
Next, create a personal ritual to help you shift into a positive state of mind. This could be as simple as closing your eyes and telling yourself “I choose to expect the best” or it could involve spending a minute or two listening to a particular piece of music that makes you feel good. Think about how you find it easiest to get yourself feeling positive and optimistic and then adopt that method as your positive attitude habit ritual.
The third step is to observe your reminders and carry out your personal ritual whenever you need to do so. For example, if the clock chimes the hour, take a moment out from whatever you are doing and check your attitude. Whether you are feeling positive or not, go through your personal ritual to get yourself in a positive frame of mind and then return to whatever you were doing beforehand.
As I said earlier, it takes a little time to develop the positive attitude habit, so don’t beat yourself up whenever you catch yourself in a pessimistic mood. Instead, congratulate yourself for noticing that mood, then transform it into a positive and empowering one!
Give yourself three weeks to establish the positive attitude habit and you will soon notice a big difference in your life. Even if you currently think of yourself as a fairly positive person, it’s always possible to strengthen that trait even more, and when you do so you will find that you automatically increase your ability to create good things in your life.
